When will the drama with him end?

So I told my dad (the one that currently lives in Florida) about my being pregnant on Sunday night, the 25th. He blew up on me, I cried, hung up, he called my mom and yelled at her, then texted me saying something like "I'm begging you not to throw your life away" and that was that for the day.

The next day (26th) he texts me again giving me a backhanded compliment. He's good at those.

Next day (27th) I get a text from my cousin in Massachusetts (where like all his side of the family is) and he's asking if it's true I'm pregnant. I confirm it and ask where he got his info. My grandma (dad's mom) told his mom who told him. I text my dad saying so why'd you tell the whole family? And he owned up to it and started giving me more crap. I decided not to take it and warned him that if he keeps this up he will not be in my child's life. Like at all. He doesn't seem to care and gives me more shit so I'm like okay, I may have not planned this thing, especially not so soon, but I will do a good job at being a parent and Garrett and I will make it work and I will definitely not abandon my child (haha like he did!). So that pissed him off for the day and he didn't text back.

Next day (28th today) he texts me at fucking 5:30 saying he will never abandon me (ha he so did, sooo many times!) but I shouldn't decide to do this because I have my whole life ahead of me...another backhanded compliment.

Then my grandma (his mom) calls me today to check up on me, asking how I'm feeling, and to send her LOVE. She's so sweet! She said she told my aunt Kitty (Leland the cousin's mom) and she said she's happy for me and I can talk to her whenever and am always welcome to stay with them and visit. I know, my family rocks, huh?

Then later today my grandma (that I lived with, my mom's mom) said my dad called my mom today and totally bitched her out some more. Lovely. He basically told her that having me so young was the biggest mistake of his life and the whole family (his side) is infuriated with me and pretty much wants to disown me. So not true! Since I got it first hand from my grandma! But my mom (the strong woman that she is) told him up and said I do not need anything but support and love right now so if he doesn't cut this shit out, he's not going to have a relationship with me or my child because I'm basically ready to write him out of my life. I love my mom!!!

So that's the latest...I'll write more if there is more!